I know I might be overreacting, but I’m bf hasn’t responded to any of my texts, and it’s been 2 days. Yes, I know only 2 days, but it really worries me. I have really bad anxiety, and we always text every day. But a little more context the last time this happened, he cheated on me. But I just don’t know what to do anymore.
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it’s normal to ghost your partner in a committed relationship. don’t fall trapped into thinking you could communicate clearly and not play games
He is feeling guilty and embarrassed to face you because he is a coward.
I’m sorry to hear that. You should break up with him and not allow him to come back into your life.
This is not ok. This man doesn’t respect you. 2 days is very long! You deserve someone who will give you updates even if it’s just a small text. I recommend listening to the podcast Openhouse with Louise rumball. It helped me with my cheating ex and after listening to it, I managed to breakup with him and not get back
Why are you still with someone who cheated on you?
Hi I’m sorry that had happened to you. It definitely is worrying and can give you a lot of trust issues but if this is something that you wanna talk about with him maybe that’s an option for you. The only thing is either you’d be able to trust his words or not. I have a few options for you. Either you believe what he says to you, and further work things out and talk about what kind of compromises you can make to make your relationship work (Personally, this only works if both of you can recognize your owns faults and are ready to grow from the situation) or you can talk about it with him, hear him out but ultimately decide the choice that this man might not be the one for you but even you have to make the tough decision if that’s something you wanna go thru. Love (the feeling) is never enough. It takes work and practice to love each other.