Can someone explain the feeling? My bf wants me to REALLLLY dom him and I was interested in adding some light dick slapping into the mix, but if this generally isn’t something that feels good then I’ll bring it up to him in detail beforehand. he seems to really like the element of surprise so it’s hard to gauge a pain threshold while keeping it exciting.
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As long as you don’t hit the sack some light dick slapping is good
👇We didn’t get it the first time I guess??👇
I incorporate cock and ball slapping with one of my partners and he absolutely loves it. I’ve had three other partners who have enjoyed it but its not common. And its really pretty light slapping as its definitely a sensitive zone.
That being said its important to learn what intensity is acceptable when you’re doing any kind of impact play. Even a light tap can be very painful and you dont want to ruin the moment or traumatize a person. So once you have consent to try it use the red/yellow/green system and start VERY light and increase from there until he starts saying “yellow” (which means it’s still okay but we’re getting close to my limit) and make a mental note of where that boundary is.
Edit to add: you will see by the comments that this is a hard limit for many people and thats okay. But it is enjoyable for some. You just need to talk about it first.
absolutely not.
I’d try it once! Twice, to be certain.
Eh. If you don’t slap the head it wouldn’t really be felt that much.
I’m not particularly interested in trying out being dominated, but if I were to go along with it because someone I trusted asked me to try it out, if she decided to just haul off and start slapping my dick without consent well, that does seem like the kind of thing that would cause me to end the scene right then and there.
So you should make sure he’s actually interested in or open to you doing harsh things to his penis before you try that kind of thing.