I know it’s only me because she doesn’t like my family members but even they can see her statuses. If she shares anything controversial then they’ll tell me anyway.
I found out coz I was talking to my family (different country) and they told me something and I asked how do you know? Oh well your wife put that on her whatsapp status.
I never tried to police her neither I ever checked her phone. Infact she’s the one who checks my phone secretly and pretends as if she won’t. Idc really but why exclude me only from her whatsapp statuses? If she is talking personally to someone I still don’t care but if she’s sharing something in public then why am I excluded?
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That sounds sus and like she is using whats app to him things from you. Does she have anyone set to auto delete messages?
She is hiding stuff from you, what we have no idea.
The going through your phone and denying it is a red flag. Change you password and lock it down. Don’t say anything about doing it.
She doesn’t want you to know what she’s up to. You said she searches your phone secretly. She doesn’t want you to behave the way she does. It’s called projection she’s dirty, so she assumes you’re dirty to. My opinion is there are no secrets in a marriage. She has secrets.
Reading the comments, you two need to talk. I don’t really get the sense that there’s something bad going on, but you need to start a dialogue.
I post stuff on status but not to my entire phone directory. Just people who I think will be amused by the content. Maybe she doesn’t want you included in that. It’s not anything you should be getting stressed over. I’m sure you have more important things to worry about than this.
C’mon man