I’ve only ever had sex as a top before so I’ve never taken any dick up my ass. Now that I’m with my boyfriend (who has a whopping length of 8”😵), I want to bottom for him, but I can’t seem to fit more than 4” up my ass (for context, I used a 9” dildo, but only got 4” deep).
Everytime I try to go deeper, it feels like there’s a blockage and it will not go any deeper, not to mention the intense pain in my chest while using the dildo. Is there any way to prep for his length, or am I just too small for anal? 🙁
Also, any advice on fully cleaning your bowels? I don’t want to give him shit-dick on my first time bottoming😭
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I literally just googled this for you: “anal sex prep”: [https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a13083522/how-to-prepare-for-anal-sex/](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/sex/a13083522/how-to-prepare-for-anal-sex/)
An enema to flush out and much more lube, maybe a desensitizing lube
Time, patience and lube are the three main things you need.
Keep experimenting with dildoes and butt plugs (remember to use things with flared bases)
It’s more about making yourself stretch to his girth, and then he can slowly push in further.