I’m an idiot. After years of adulting, I often contemplated why people who had asked me out to do stuff with them (like grab lunch, stop by for a visit, go to an arcade) never asked to hang out again. I had an epiphany that maybe I’m supposed to ask them to go out and do something with me next….how can I be so dense? Take this lesson from me: if you want people to hang out with, start inviting and reciprocating invitations.