So we’ve been together only about 3 months or so and it’s been about a month or a few weeks since we’ve been trying to do it, but the few times we’ve tried we get all the way to where I’m about to put it in and she stops me because she can’t handle the pain and she has a high pain tolerance naturally so it must hurt a lot.
She does have a big self-image problem. Like she’ll sometimes just cover herself up and I try to comfort her but I feel like I’m not helping.
This last time I tried using a bunch of lube, making sure she was very wet because that’s also an issue for her but even then we can’t.
She has a depression problem and I’ve been trying to work through it with her but I’m not sure I’m doing any good. Which pains me because I know if things don’t work out with us she’ll probably never look for someone else again and I can’t live knowing that. I know it’s been very little time but now i feel like I need to help. I don’t know how
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I think she should consult a doctor.