I have plans to meet up with a childhood crush and hinted already at giving a bj. We’re gonna be watching a movie so I assume we’d be laying down on a bed or sitting on a couch. How do I start a blowjob? I was thinking of starting off by kissing his neck and or making out while feeling on his member to get some blood rushing down. Then eventually whip it out, and start teasing more by kissing from his inner thigh from knee to groin. Any other way or tips to approach and tease a blowjob?

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  1. I mean tbh what u were thinking was perfect, that’s the hottest and easiest way to approach from a guys point of view.

  2. I think you’re good with what you got honestly. Make it intimate, build up the tension, find a comfortable position for both of you, go ham.

  3. That’s a good plan hun, focus on his head with your mouth and your hands on his shaft.

  4. I always like open mouthed kisses with some slight nibbles slowly moving from neck down the stomach, then teasing around the cock for a while and touching it, then the bj. Have fun!

  5. Moving from his neck to his ear for a quick nibble can be a solid move, too! It also allows you the chance to whisper some dirty talk into his ear, which is an OP move on almost any guy. Something along the lines of: “I’ve been thinking about doing this all day” will work wonders.

  6. Lots of foreplay is key, so your ideas so far are great! Just take your time before actually pulling it out. Like maybe suck his fingers, lightly tug on the back of his hair, nibble his jawline and bottom lip, and kiss/lick down his chest before getting to the groin area.

    (really explicit tips below, warning lol)

    For the actual bj itself, teasing is also great then, too. Like licking his abdomen or balls and rubbing his tip at the same time. Kind of twitching your tongue against his frenulum, sucking just the head, then slowly actually bringing your head down when you’re ready. Swirling your tongue around him occasionally, keeping a tight suction with your mouth (but no teeth), avoid the back of your throat too much since it can hurt. Breathe through your nose (it’s surprisingly easy to forget to lmao). If you’re okay with swallowing, he’ll probably panic or go to move you off or say something as he’s about to cum, in which case, just pull his hips to you and hold him there as a way of showing him it’s okay.

    Hope that helps!

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