Not to sure what to do here. I met a (so far) amazing man a couple months ago. We’ve been hanging out at my place any time we have gotten together. No dates so that strikes me as odd but don’t mind it because we are both homebodies and apparently he lives with roommates but I don’t like to pry in someone’s life so I don’t really get into details. I am very independent with no drama and a good career. He has only spent the night twice. We communicate all day every day about a variety of topics. Our time together is always nice and he says things that elude to me being in his future for example, when talking about his family he will include “you’ll meet her one day” or “when we go” we have discussed travel, etc. but he also says things like “if we were together” “if we got together “ which basically says we are only dating. I have been exclusive to him however I don’t know if he’s been only talking to me . So my issue is, do I remain on this “loyal without a title “ path, is it too new? Or do I continue to date other people and keep my options open? Should I be asking a lot of personal questions? I feel like they will share as we get to know each other. Just some simple advice here . Thank you so much.
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You need to have a conversation with your partner about what you’re both doing. Don’t assume. Communicate.
You need to have a conversation with him, but also you have to at least go to his place before you become his girlfriend. Come on, don’t be dumb.
I was like this with my wife before we started dating. We were great together, talked and hung out all the time. I had recently been in a breakup of four years though, and wasn’t ready to “settle down” and get that title of boyfriend/girlfriend yet. To this day she brings up how we were friends and then fwb’s for a year before we started dating, lol.