I would never cheat on my husband, we’ve been married for 3 years now. I love him, and he’s a good husband. Our sex life has been pretty boring even before he left for deployment. Now that he’s gone it has me fantasizing about other men. I don’t know how to control these thought, I feel really guilty about it. If you have ever had similar feelings how do you get through it?
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Keep yourself busy and masturbate in order to keep the thoughts away. I don’t think you have a choice here, unfortunately. Think how happy he will be when he comes back and finds you craving his dick like an animal.
Do yourself and your marriage a favor. Buy a dildo and or vibrator and wait for him to come home. Before he gets home buy some cheap lingerie on a website like SHEIN and tell him you’ve been thinking about him while he was gone and you bought the lingerie for him. It takes two to tango. Tell him you appreciate him and that you want to show him. Rock his world in anyway you can think. Give him the blowjob of his life. Ride his face for as long as you can. Be vocal and let him know your needs. Hopefully he will be inspired to do the same for you.
America needs you to stay faithful. Don’t give into Jodie
I knew plenty in the service who had wives facing this dilemma. Some were wise and decided on open others kept the loyalty(talk about gun ho bad bitch loyal) then there were the ones who whored out….they are considered the most shameful amongst service spouses imo…man is literally our somewhere doing his job and their nailing the first person they find cute.they get no pity and imo deserve the old quartered and drawn…cuz based on the state they still get something from them after and they were the cheaters….watch porn keep in contact.talk to him about opening doors in the bedroom…would seriously help in the long run.
Are you able to have private video chats together? Amazon yourself some new toys and show him how you use them. Masturbate together on your call.
Or just watch porn. So many, many different men to watch and fantasize about.
Dont turn yourself into the stereotype.
Sometimes you gotta do what you gotta do or just masturbate or sexting but get that feeling taken care of.
My hubby was deployed for over 10 months and I used to send him fun pics and would just take care of myself lol. Maybe sexting now will help spice up your sex life with him when he’s back. Other things I did while he was gone was work out a lot. It helped release pent up energy, and I got into amazing shape by the time he was back.