I starting doing this new thing that works quite well for me so I wanted to share. First I would like to say yes judging people solely on their looks are wrong in person. But if you think about it, I started swiping on all people that were attractive to me personally it’s different for everyone. But it’s actually works quite well unfortunately looks do matter and I realized that reading through the profiles made me limit to many people which is on me. But if you think about it people are always more willing to get to know people they find appealing.
So I like them, I’ll read their profile after we’ve matched and get to know them chat and it’s actually really helpful.
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What did you used to do?
Isn’t this what people normally do?
Oh okay I think I get it. You used to swipe only after reading the profile. Now you swipe right on everyone who’s basically attractive enough, and you only use the profile for making conversation after matching with them.
Instead of using the profile to decide if there’s potential chemistry, you’re waiting until you can chat with them.
That makes sense. Seems like a sensible approach for women who worry they’re being too selective.
Uhhh I’m curious to what you were doing before lmao because that’s how you’re supposed to use dating apps…