This makes me feel she doesnt respect me or that she hates me deep down and im already insecure about how she feels about me anyways.
Guys im(m23) stuck, my girlfriend (f24) lets her friends talk trash about me (as in she doesnt defend me or tell them to stop). Her friends dont even know me at all and im not on social media so its not like they see me there.
In my mind they all make things up about me (i got arrested for a nonviolent crime and it was public information) and have there own stories, but my girlfriend comes home and tells me all about what they were saying but she never reacts to them she just hears it and lets it happen and stays happy and smiley the whole time.
Am i crazy for thinking theres something going on? Because honestly this really hurts my feelings. If anybody had the gual to shit talk my princess id surely shut it down or tell them they have no clue what they are talking about.
I just need some insight please.
Tl;dr. My girlfriend is pregnant and i feel like i might be hard on her when i talk to her about these things? It really does hurt me and im going through a lot rn. And i hold back a ton because i sont want to put her through more than shes already going thriugh but sometimes i cant help but talk to her about how shitty shes making me feel. Maybe im an asshole? Idk i need help
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Why on earth is your gf telling you the negative shit they say ??
Have you talked to her about it? You should if not
Some people, and I can say this from experience, do NOT like confrontation. At all. I wouldn’t be able to say anything either, but that’s just another perspective I guess.