Met someone 31(m) I’m 32(f) and spoke for a few days over the phone like 3 plus hours each day. We agreed to go on a cute little breakfast date. It went well, we decided to hang out later the next day things went well again. We were supposed to hang out again a day later but I got a migraine and after a few hours of waiting on him to wrap his stuff up I texted I was going to go to bed soon.
So his text was something along the lines of alright, I wanted to stay at home anyways. I called to try and say goodnight, he didn’t answer. I was like call me.. he was like no, I’ll call you tomorrow. This was around 10pm.. didn’t hear from him until 6ish the next day. That was after me saying I hope he wasn’t mad. Well another 24 hours goes by and communication stalls. Then today he’s like “I’ve lost interest” not sure how or if you’d want to move forward.
I don’t get people at all lol 😞
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Hang in there, there was way too little communication and honestly in my opinion (in person) feeling built with this one. Relationships are built with time and attention. Love at first sight does exist but its shit compared to love after 20 years, take your time and if someone flakes off early, your probably lucky, especially when you are dealing with real world issues. If they don’t understand now, they will not understand later.