As the title says.
I used to think that I was asexual because I didn’t want to have sex. Even I masturbated rarely. But as I get older, I’m getting hornier. Now I realized that when I’m horny I want to have sex. But when I’m not horny I don’t want to have sex – often it terrifies me.
I don’t have a boyfriend or girlfriend currently and also I’m not seeing anyone so there isn’t pressure from anyone to have sex.
Is this normal? Maybe this is a stupid question but a lot of girls my age are enjoying sex or want to have sex so I feel like a weirdo when I don’t want to have it.
Edit: I forgot to write that I’m a virgin.
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“When Iam not horny I don’t want to have sex” is the norm I’d say. Its very normal, just because others started the sexual exploration phase earlier doesn’t mean anything.
If you feel like you want to have sex go for it, if not don’t force yourself. If you find someone you can trust there is no need to be afraid.
Be you, don’t try to be like anyone else. Whether you’re not ready or interested, it’s fine cause that’s what YOU want. I recommend getting some toys, maybe a wand or a clit sucker, for when you are in the mood. They sell them on amazon and come in very discreet packages. Best of luck!