So to keep it short, my dad (m49) wasn’t present in most of my childhood. He came back after I turned around 5 or 6 and ever since he’s tried to be close to me but always lashes out on me for small things. Same with my mom (f49) only that she’s more verbal while my dad is more physical. He doesn’t actually hit me or my mom but he slams doors, yells or hits tables when he gets angry or upset with either me or my mom.
Lately after my 16th birthday it’s just gotten worse. They both have gotten to the point where if I do something they don’t like, they’ll yell at me for hours and give me a cold shoulder for weeks.
Now that I’m 18 and have sort of moved in with my bf (m21) and his family, they’ve begun to bribe me to go back “home” and when I leave after the weekend it’s yelling and shouting at me for me bringing more stuff from my room to my bf’s place. I’m so mentally exhausted and ready to cut them off but at the same time I’m scared of what they’re going to do when I do cut them off.
Note: they are paying for my phone bill and streaming services and some health services like dentist and doctors.
Any tips?