I got in a situationship in November with a guy who wanted to see me everyday tbf (night most of the time), he’d text me all the time and seem interested in me.
He asked me to be exclusive up until when I had to leave for Xmas ( I was going for 3 wks as I wanted to spend more time with my dad who’s recently been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s w FTD).
He briefly just told me about it and I was quite hurt and I didn’t quite feel satisfied with what he told me as it happened out of the blue. The day we do that he posts a pic of him out with some friends and awfully close to some girl he knew.
When I was away for Xmas he’d keep texting me which I didn’t expect so I was confused and bear in mind when we’d been exclusive he’d send me lots of mixed signals and even couple tik toks sometimes.
One day he posts a bereal with the same girl in his bed and that’s when I decided he was prolly seeing her somewhere before I was about to leave as he’d begun to be distant right before that week.
I accidentally took a screenshot of his bereal not sure if he saw it but it happened ( so I removed him from it).
His last text to me then was just about him saying how he’s been doing some stuff at uni and wished me luck with my exams and then he said “will talk in the future :)”.
I feel he keeps trying to be the nice guy, texts me to keep me around and so much more has happened .
I didn’t bother replying as there’s nothing I’ve left to say to him, I’m just going to be walked all over.
I’m planning to block him on all socials without saying anything.
Any advice?
Ask for more context if needed x
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Seems like you got it right.
Block and walk away.
You don’t need your time or energy wasted on someone that clearly isn’t for you.