How to do a good clit licking?

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1. The easiest way I can explain how I’ve found RJ work best- watch them rub it. Keep the motion in mind when licking. Doesn’t have to be the same speed.. but just try to be similar. Take your time, let her know you’re enjoying it (as long as you actually enjoy it) and if she wants a finger inside while you do it.. ask

2. Don’t lick it at 100mph. That works for porn, rarely if ever in real life.

   Go slow.

3. Focus on the little man in the boat.

4. I’d also say don’t just lick it but also (gently?) suck on it in between!

5. listen to here body feel her out. change the speed of your tongue

6. Do a good fingering at the same time

7. Use your thumbs to gently and slowly spread her pussy open, this makes the clit and hood ‘pop out’ which results in easier access.

   First, use the tip of your tongue, and slide it very softly across the outer skin of the hood, where the labia flow from. Like this, make a large, evasive circle around the clit and hood.

   Move slow but deliberate, keep your pace.

   Make the circle smaller, focussing on the hood and the skin directly below or next to the clit now. Make sure to use enough spit, the goal here is to evade the clit still, but flood it with your saliva and tease it with the closeness of your licks.

   Smaller again, this time you are licking the clit. If you want to focus just on the clit, make use of tight, small circular movements, or strafe your laps. Left to right, down to up, at diagonals. Keep the pace and deliberateness of your licks.

   I’d recommend though not focussing on just the clit. Every now and then I’d add on a broad (as in push your tongue flat and use it’s full width) ‘strokes’ across her labia and slit. Start at the bottom of her sex, move up, turn your tongue from broad to tip, and then focus on the clit again.

   As you do all of this, you can also use your thumbs to very softly massage and rub her labia.

   To please a woman, it is very often better to work with compound sensations. Eg, do not do one thing, even if it is inanely good,.unless it is with the deliberate goal to tease her. Rather,.compound two, three or.more different sensations in one mix. It will work much better.

   As she nears her climax, do not change pace or deliberateness of your licks. Change pace BEFORE you get close to the finish.

   As she cums, slow that tongue down. Keep it on her clit, and press down hard with JUST the tongue, and make very slow slides on her clit. This will make her orgasm more intense and last a bit longer.

   I could go on and on about this, from a technical pov. But this should be enough to get you started. Keep experimenting and combining sensations. Every woman is different. Some like similar sensations, others like very different ones.

   Now get licking soldier!

8. Less licking more sucking….

   Sure some.people like licking, but some really, really don’t

9. Up down up down left right B A start

10. Everyone likes different things. I barely even like being eaten out at all (I’ve had many men AND women try, I just like having my cervix beaten to a pulp) but if anything I like flat tongue. The little flicky twiddling twat movements just tickle to me. So try different things to see what she likes!

11. Focus on her clit and alternate licks. Don’t be aggressive. If she starts reacting well to a particular thing you are doing KEEP DOING EXACTLY THAT. Not faster or harder, just what she is liking

12. Push her lips open with ur upper lip tongue slow down as u lick up stuff her clit in your mouth n suck on it flicking with ur tongue .

13. Along with the things suggested here PLEASE be able to listen to your partner and take direction. Be patient and you’ll give her the time of her life.