So basically all the people I know have received an intimate gift from a friend, without an occassion (so not for birthday or Christmas or anything), at least once in their lives. Whether it be playlists, or drawings, or collages, or anything. They also got these stuff without doing anything themselves. Meanwhile it basically never happened to me. Each time I got something from another person, it’s just because they give that to everyone or because it is my birthday or something. It’s not that I am ungrateful but I obviously feel down that nobody ever saw me in this way.

What may be the reason? Is it a problem with me? I have a small number of close friends but they all do appreciate me and I try to be thoughtful by supporting them at every time and messaging them regularly (as well as initiating stuff to do together).

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  1. Hace you ever given those gifts to people you appreciate? Not once and no with any purpose besides of making them a little more happy.

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