What if what makes you happy now is what makes you miserable later on?

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1. Then you might need to decide what you pursue.

2. Either you persevere until you find the spark again or you put it down and find something that makes you happy. What you do when the thing you do makes you miserable is dependent on how risk averse one may be.

3. You mean like drugs and alcohol?

4. Work, they took my happiness and self esteem little by little and ground it into a speed bump in the administration’s parking lot so they can continue to run it over with their cars

5. Plenty of things: fast car driving, extreme sports, drugs, alco. Lot of activities has quite a high probability of heavy consequences in the future. What is the true question you want to ask?

6. The price of having what you want is living with the results of what you used to want.

7. Are you talking about dating/marriage?

8. Can’t predict that, so there’s not much I can do about it is there? So why worry about it?

9. I’m a very very impulsive and compulsive person. Everything I do gets me to that place at some point.

   Relationships, hobbies, all kinds of drugs and alcohol, food, and a bunch of stuff in general have all been amazing and brought me to terrible lows.

   When that happens, I suffer until I can’t suffer more then quit and find the next thing. I have a high tolerance for suffering though.

10. Porn will never let me down.

11. Ask anyone who’s ever been through a divorce

12. Like KFC?

13. Like smoking and too much alcohol?
    The question has a pretty self explanatory answer:

    You will regret doing the shit you did when you were younger.

14. soooo, basically a wife.