I’m dating an avoidant. I’ve no problem with that, give her the space she needs to have, don’t push her on intimacy and appreciate the time and fun we have together. I’m generally secure. However a friend saw recently she was on hinge. I didn’t cause confrontation and immediately assumed to be old account and let her know. She absolutely assured was from last year but had deleted the app not account . Within a week she then appeared on my mates standouts on hinge and her pictures had change order, whilst still the same the profile picture was now one of the others. This made me feel sick. She was angry not with me but that this could happen contacted hinge and got account deleted. Trouble is I’ve now become anxious from what she sought on the profile isn’t me and feel I’ve lost confidence