Married Men. How do/did you know/figure out that your wife was toxic?

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1. Man this is a bleak question. Most marriages are better than this.

2. When it’s not Wednesday on a Wednesday evening.

3. My wife had some toxic traits on account of the abusive marriage she had before me, took some patience to work on it but i was never a saint myself so i guess we both end up growing in our marriage

4. After years of anger issues over mundane stuff. I tried to change, be home more, cook more, clean more etc. Things stayed the same. I finally found out the sister was the exact same way after having a heart to heart talk with my brother in law. My solution was after 11years together to file for divorce

5. How do I know? Because everything I say and do triggers annoyance or anger from her.

6. She had an affair with a high school girl , I divorced her .

7. When she started saying she didn’t care what I thought about things. And blaming me for her actions, saying she had no interest in changing at all for me. Using sex as a bargaining tool, but then not following through with the sex she would promise. I could go on and on.