I’m a college freshman and I here that women in their late teens and early 20s are the most shallow and looks based compared to when they are older. With that said I’d like to know what all is needed looks wise in order to find a partner. Should I at least have a muscular physique and be at a certain height threshold before I try to venture out for a possible partner. I know this sounds like a silly question but I know that casual dating and sex really puts physical attributes at the forefront so I’d like to know all the physical qualifications necessary in order to venture into the world of casual sex.
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Be yourself!!! Don’t change for anyone! You’ll find someone who works for you. Also, Tinder is great lol
Finding partners for casual sex is easy if you either:
1. Look like a model with 0% body fat
OR (more realistically)
2. Have a decent personality and confidence.
My friend has an insane body count and he’s like, a 4/10 on the attractive scale. He’s confident and listens when women talk. That’s it.
Looks plays a factor in any age, and I wouldn’t place women in buckets based on hearsay. There are also no “qualifications” to find a sex partner. Life is crazy and unpredictable, with sex appearing in the most unexpected places, especially in college.
All that being said, being presentable according to society’s standards does make you more appealing. Meaning if you work out regularly and have a healthy body, you will look attractive. Working to get six pack and crazy muscles is overkill, just exercies and diet in good shape. Plenty of practical tips on bulking and cutting online if that’s your thing.
Fashion goes a long way too. Don’t need to be trendy, just learn about how to use contrasting colors in your clothes, learning what fits best, and getting feedback from others on how you present yourself. Haircut, skin care routines, all of this helps keep you looking your best and will stick with you as you get older.
Most important is just making friends and socializing. The more you put yourself out there in casual friend situations, the more charismatic you can get, the more likely you are to meet others that you could click with, some of which will eventually find you sexually appealing. Just focus on breaking comfort zones without sacrificing who you are. Don’t try to fake it, but don’t play it safe either.
This is all practical advice that will work in college. If you want to go straight into hookups, then just look for social events and parties in the campus where you know people are likely going to be hooking up. That or spin Russian roulette with tinder.
Have a great time but make sure you don’t slack off on your studies. Work hard, play hard.