I fear writing sometimes in the relationship Reddit because I assume everyone is apart of it because they also have negative issues they’re working with in relationship, and so what do they know about what’s true?
However I trust this question.
I just had wine with my friends and after my large panic about having doubts in my relationship they too expressed their doubts about whether or not to be with their partners.
How often does a normal healthy relationship think about these things? Are we all just crazy?
I mean we’re all in healthy loving relationships and we’re in our young 30s.
Do you always wonder, does it ever stop, is it a constant choice, or are we missing something?
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I think having doubts here and there after a big fight does happen, or just when you’re questioning big life choices. But I wouldn’t say it’s ‘normal’ to always feel this way in a happy healthy relationship.
If you’re having regular doubts you need to get to the root of why and figure out if this relationship is actually for you.
Having doubts are normal and spending some time every so often to think about the relationship and how it can be improved.