My fwb has recently wanted me to talk dirty to him and I just.. can’t. I don’t feel attractive and I also equate it with intimacy which he has issues with and doesn’t do anything like that (such as kissing, caressing, anything ‘romantic’).
Now if I *were* to do it, it would be way more intimate than he’s comfortable with so me not doing it that way just feels..wrong; I’m putting myself out there and it feels..exposing? If that makes sense. I understand that’s his limits and it doesn’t bother me if we’re both getting off. But I don’t know how a man would see it and how to really explain it.
Thoughts?
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Be honest with him just like you were here. Open communication is key even with fwb, imo.
Have you actually tried? I didn’t think I could do dirty talk but it’s happening more lately.
If you have tried and can’t, you have to communicate that.