Okay so I met this guy a couple of weeks ago through a dating sub here on Reddit. I fell for his looks but turns out he was a smooth talker, good funny guy. We talked a lot and I gave him all my actual details(social ids, number, FaceTime and also kinda address). Now after we met for first time in a new city for just 2hrs I thought this will turn into something special and I like a fool started planning dates, looking for the cheap flight tickets for valentines and my birthday but this guy started acting up. Picking fights, comparing me with ex and doubting me and all. Now he had a troublesome childhood and a difficult past so I kept trying but then at this point I think he’s straight up toxic and it has nothing to do with his past. The last conversation was 2days ago when he started yelling at me because I was goofing around on Reddit while he expected me to cry that he wasn’t talking to me.
I want to get back but also kinda gave up. Should I give it a last try? (Already gave extra shots from my end while he barely does anything)
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Good looking + smooth talker, isn’t that an entire communist parade’s worth of red flags?
If you’re already in pain now can you imagine how shitty he’ll treat you further down the relationship. I’m sure there’s more guys who’ll treat you better and won’t compare you to an ex..
Don’t start planning your life around someone that you just met for two hours, it’s a huge turnoff. Like, if you’re planning flights and birthdays, it’s way too much right off the bat.
advice is to move on. this one was a miss.