What is the ideal version of yourself that you hope to become?

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1. an idealized version of myself would be affected less by the actions/words of others since it’s damaging to me now

2. tenacious and sharp-witted

3. A psychologist who runs her own clinical research and practice

4. More confident, self-assured, and well spoken.

5. Skinny

6. Emotionally and financially stable.

7. Hopefully someone who stands up for herself without fear. I hope she goes for her dreams and stops convincing herself that she can’t do things for made up reasons. I hope she’s happy, whatever she decides.

8. Happy, hard working & patient

9. I need a career change. Love the people in my life but hate where I live. I want to improve on that by getting a better career and more money to move.

10. Supporting myself financially and also just not needing anyone

11. the version of my self my younger 8 year old self idolized

12. Want to experience at least one day when I’m careless about others’ opinion and enjoying my life.
    Haven’t experienced it since I was born lol.

13. I want to be emotionally confident and open, not build up a facade and act aloof or careless.

14. My ideal version of myself is less socially awkward, has an iron-clad habit of reading daily and doesn’t procrastinate. Also, she’s learned to be more eloquent and a better conversationalist.

15. ideally, I would be a lot more motivated and be less affected by minor things that currently have the ability to ruin a whole day or even several days for me

16. Self-accepting. Accepting me as I come, not as others shape me to be.

17. a mix of Chili from Bluey and Rita Loud from the loud house

    they’re mothers who parents loosely but still know when to step in so their kids don’t end up messed up, have a loving partnership with their husband, and still have careers& hobbies outside the home. the ultimate goals for work/ life balance.

    but like, with a Morticia Addams aesthetic

18. The version with a boyfriend. 😂