So my girlfriend and I have been talking about trying pegging. And we’re both pretty excited about it. We really talking things through and like to try new things.
She’s using a strap on of course. My general question: is there anything I can do, you know, hygiene-wise to make it a more enjoyable experience for the both of us.
I try to be relatively clean in general. I’m just a little nervous regarding ass play. I want to make sure we’re both comfortable and enjoy each other.
Any advice for first timers?
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Plot twist..not a strap on
While in the shower give yourself an enema. DO some research on how to do a proper one. Then take it slow and lots of lube.
Lucky.
The most important thing to remember when it comes to anal is to relax your muscles. I would suggest starting small and work your way up. And of course, good lube and a shot of tequila.
Make sure you have a bm before. You can use a laxative or an enema. You can also use a water douche to clear the area out afterwards. Once you’ve prepped the area you need to warm up before any pegging. Fingers or a small toy. A small butt plug. Lots of lube. You need to be well warmed up before pegging so it will be comfortable and enjoyable.
It really helps to know your body, specifically your bowel habits. If your poo is generally firm, that’s good, but if it tends to be loose or watery, that’s much harder to keep clean. I tend to cycle between, so I pay attention. If it seems like a “loose” day, that’s not a good day for anal. But if I can take a good firm dump with no watery follow up, then I can just douche out and be ready for good clean fun!
Just go face down, ass up and enjoy the ride. It’s a blast to be the fuckee!
Fundamentally understand that she WILL NOT have any bio-feedback, as obviously her dildo won’t let her feel you. So take it very easy and give lots of feedback, even when you are relaxed and fully accepting it. This isn’t the time to damage your insides if she gets too enthusiastic.
Be careful with ‘eyes bigger than ass.’ Go easy your first few times.
Daily psyllium husk supplements will make things much cleaner back there. An anal enema will clean things out nicely.
Thanks for the advice. May update on the experience lol
Like everybody said, start with fingers, smaller dildoes or butt plugs. Don’t start with one of those pornography size things and expect it to go well. Don’t skimp on the KY, Astroglide or whatever you use. It’s going to be messier the first few times until you learn how to avoid the mess before it gets too bad. Just have a lot of paper towels or regular towels and tissues handy. You’ll learn just how much KY you need.
Some of these kink stores and sites sell “lube injectors”, but you can buy one of these larger syringes in the grocery store or CVS for a lot less and it does the job just as well. Be sure to put some KY on it and insert it up there a little bit before you push on the plunger. Even when you inject the KY, you still have to put some on the opening and on the toy.
Do an enema beforehand. You’ll already be nervous and on high alert for anything going awry. Just do an enema so poop isn’t even in your mind. Nothing worse than trying something new, being vulnerable then getting a waft of feces.