So often times when my bf asks or tries to initiate sex I’m not necessarily turned on, and even during I’m not turned on but I still do it. For a long time I didn’t even know how being horny should feel cause I always say yes and never regretted it. Now I’m able to recognize it cause of my new meds which reduce my libido, but before I have always thought I had a high sex drive. And still now if I got asked I would say yes even though I’m not in the mood. There are times I have been genuinely horny but Ive always been down no matter what.
Idk why it’s like this and if it’s wrong or something. Sometimes I get mixed feelings about it, but it doesn’t really bother me much. I think
Info:
I am 20F
Bf is 20M
Relationship is 2 yrs
1 comment
1. Compromise. Handjob/bj , you don’t have to have sex when you’re not in the mood . I most definitely try not to have sex if my wife isn’t down for it. As it becomes a chore and boring to her.
2. Communicate with your bf. Good sex starts at the beginning of the day, flirting, lead up, thinking about it. In the moment quickies usually suck , especially if you’re not turned on