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Rules are sometimes a good starting spot, and can be fun to come up with and negotiate.
I always suggest that sex talk and coordination begin AFTER a good meal and a few drinks. So, if you’re of drinking age, responsible alcohol use can help things move forward.
If not, then the idea remains the same: you and your partner want to feel comfortable and in a safe space. Then you can start talking about sex.
I suggest changing your tone in order to create a mood and environment that supports the fantasy: when you know that it’s safe and appropriate, you can start speaking like a dependent or youthful to your daddy. Prod him on by asking about sex or mentioning your privates.
Both of you shoud create and support the fantasy, and cease when it’s no longer a private moment or place.
Start off by talking about boundaries and rules. Make sure he knows what’s off limits and what is okay to do. An open conversation is always a great start to any kink! You can even write the rules out on cute paper and use glitter!!! It’ll help you get into the head space as well!
These were all amazing suggestions! Thank you for being so kind+helpful 🙂