So according to his claims (24M) he hasnt had sex in about 2 years until he did it with me. He fucks me for the sole reason of me being available to him, even tho he is the one who initiates. I let him do whatever he wants, I suggest things I like and we usually do that but basically i can see he is bored while im riding him. He just lays back and closes his eyes or i can see him thinking about other things. He only seems to enjoy doggy, until he gets tired.
I mean sure. No feelings etc but man, if you dont enjoy it why do you ask me?
….for my future aquaintances, how do I avoid this? Has it happened to any of you?
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He probably jerks it way too often and too hard making him unable to cum from piv
I bet if he put his cock head on your lips he would cum quickly
Are you certain he isn’t enjoying?
This is a hard question for me to ask, because it might upset you. I also have very little to go on, so I’m not very informed… but are you certain he doesn’t care? That he doesn’t want you? That he’s doing the least possible?
Some men are very shy. Some men are very quiet. The fact that he just sits there blankly may mean he’s trying to prevent himself from ejaculating! He may be concentrating or considering the moment…. He might have other issues or extremely high expectations of himself.
In regards to intimacy, care is the best approach; life is already so full of demands and unhappiness… why not support and understand the ones we love? Patience… consideration and communication are key here… even in the face of possible selfish disregard.
I ask that you consider the situation, talk to him in private in a safe and comfortable place, and then draw further conclusions.
To be honest, coming from a (40)guy, sounds like he may have watched or has been watching too much porn. And is desensitized to the real thing. I know that many people argue this, but it is a real thing. He may be closing his eyes out of enjoyment, or he really may be visualizing scenes or scenarios that he has used to get off with before, in hopes of cumming.
Men are usually very visual when it comes to a big sexual input. And the problem with porn, is that it creates some things that usually are not be real scenarios or are hard to achieve in real life. And even then, it takes more and more extreme stuff for some people to get off over time. Then they try and have regular sex and although this is real physical in person, it isn’t like what they usually need to get off.
I hope that I am wrong, for your sake, but imho that is what it seems like.