As the title suggests, I (20M) am expecting to have sex with a partner (21F) and i fear that I’ve talked a bigger game than I can provide.
I really want to please her and also have a good time myself and I figured this was the place to ask for tips
I should clarify that she is much more experienced than I
2 comments
1. Ask her what she likes, or what feels good. Don’t try to perform some imagined ideal of lover/anything you see in porn, be honest and vulnerable that you’re inexperienced and you need her guidance. Communication is key.
2. Don’t expect your first time to be perfect.
3. Have a sense of humor! Sex can be awkward and weird, especially when first getting to know someone. Don’t take it so seriously that you can’t share a laugh.
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