my boyfriend (23M) and i (20F) have been together since may 2021. since i met him i’ve been losing weight but i am still a big woman. it makes me feel weird because his family is skinnier and healthier and there are some bigger people but it’s not as often. his brothers are primarily skinny and they feel comfortable always fat shaming other people and talking about fat people. me as a fat person and as his fat girlfriend it makes me uncomfortable. i told him awhile ago when i first noticed but he invalidated it like ‘oh they were talking about people who are 400+ pounds’ which didn’t feel like much a difference. well anyways i just wanted to vent cause it makes me feel pretty bad even though i am losing weight. it just makes me sad. he offered to talk to them but i pretty much declined because he would see it but not be aware of it (which i know i shouldn’t expect him to be a mind reader but he gets skinny shamed so i assumed he would understand). and it’s just how they think so idk. just kinda down and don’t even want to be around anyone
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Honestly, imagine every time you visit someone’s family they’re going on about fat people. What a bunch of absolute losers.
The next time you see them, you should deadass just ask “what’s your obsession with fat people? You seem to talk about them all the time.”
Or just stop seeing them altogether