what does it mean when a guy doesn’t take off his jewelry to fuck? i’m talking silver chains, rings. he didn’t take them off twice when we had sex and i just wondered why but didn’t ask. thoughts?

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  1. I’m a girl, but I don’t take my jewelry off beforehand. It just takes too long and feels kinda awkward… There’s also no real reason to take it off. It’s just inconvenient to pause for that long and kinda dampens the mood. I’m assuming it’s the same for guys.

  2. I have rings, after a while I forget that I have it. The only occasion where I remove it is If I need to have solid grip in my hands, so climbing, nothing more.

    It’s anticlimactic to remove every piece of jewelry when the time to have sex comes, plus it’s easily forgettable depending on what object we’re talking about.

  3. It could be a fetish.

    He might be proud of his bling! I have a fetish for women who keep their jewelry on during sex… there’s something mature about it for me… pearl earings… silver or gold necklaces… a tied up bun of hair… stockings…

    If it bothers you or is uncomfortable, then please let him know carefully. It’s okay for you to be honest!

  4. I don’t take my jewelry off except for the chain ony neck. My bracelet and wedding ring along with my earrings stay on.

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