I’ve been in a casual/friends with benefits relation with a guy.. and he does not like vaginas’s apparently.
He does not want to finger me or go down. But he likes getting a head .

I’m not sure how to feel about it.
I don’t want to feel weird about having a vagina!

24 comments
  1. Well, consider changing your FWB. Seems like he is using you for fun without providing fun himself.

  2. Do you think he may be gay? Perhaps he is questioning his sexuality and trying to explore. I would be supportive of him and just ask him. It’s a fair question! You can be nice about it but at the end of the day, straight guys are attracted to vaginas and should want to go further in my opinion. Especially if the whole scenario is a FWBs relationship

  3. If he’s just a FWB and he’s not doing the things for you that you want, what’s the point of being fwb?

  4. Sounds like you have a friend and he has the benefits…. Time to find a better friend.

  5. I guess he’s just in it for sex then? Some fwb might feel they don’t have to make extra effort on your part because it isn’t a relationship.

  6. Find another guy. This can’t be a one sided deal where he gets all the pleasure – and you get ignored. Get yourself another FWB!

  7. sounds like he just uses that as an excuse to not have to please his partner and i hope ur not giving him head if ur not receiving any.. best case is to find a new fwb

  8. Sounds like he is the only one benefiting…lol

    Drop him. Unless you get off by only servicing him.

  9. Tell him its okay to be gay. But your not just gonna blow him with no benifits to yourself.

  10. sounds either selfish or possibly isn’t as into women as he “wants” to be (like maybe he’s ashamed of being gay?).

  11. Wow how selfish is he, give this douche a wide berth, it should always be giving as well as receiving, he obviously doesn’t appreciate you or……he could swing the other way and daren’t say anything and then s using his imagination.

  12. Okay so remind us how this FWB situation benefits you?

    If he wants a service he should just pay for it

  13. Don’t feel weird about your body. Get a different FWB or explain to him it’s got to be a mutual beneficial situation or none at all.

  14. So the benefits part is just for him then and not both of you?
    I don’t understand people who engage in an activity with another person and they don’t care about the other person’s pleasure at all!!!

    You deserve way better than this.

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