I did my very best and was pretty into it. However about halfway in he went soft and said he just wanted to play w my tits. So while I’m trying to at least cum, he’s pretty much checked out so I just stop trying. Now we’re laying here, he’s asleep.
I always ride on top in a few different positions depending, and when he went soft was when I laid on my belly per his instruction so we could do it that way. I call him daddy like he likes, I always make sure he’s comfortable, I don’t moan excessively, I give it everything and I’m not fat or ugly.
Why doesn’t he want to have sex with me? Is there something I’m missing like teen innocence or something fucked up that just doesn’t do it for him anymore? I’m kinda pissed.
The end thanks any advice is appreciated.
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It’s not always about you. Sex starts and ends in your own head, if he’s having trouble staying hard it’s because he’s either got other things on his mind, he’s filled with self doubt or he’s just not feeling mentally right.
Ask him if he’s stressed or there’s something on his mind. Have some exploratory conversations about what really turns him on also.
He had trouble getting hard once and you’re asking how to spice up your sex life or why he doesn’t want to have sex with you? It sounds like low self esteem on your end.
Men are allowed to not want sex sometimes, and it sounds like he did he just wasn’t able to in that moment and your pissed off? 100% a you problem from what you described.
You said he was relatively sober so I think that means he drank some. Alcohol can have that effect. Also, I’m guessing it was late at night. Maybe he was just tired. That can certainly do it. You said he fell asleep so that actually would be my first guess as to the reason. Also, testosterone levels are higher in the morning than at night. Maybe when you wake up tomorrow he’ll be ready. It could be other things to but it’s probably not you.
Unless it starts happening most of the time I wouldn’t worry about it.