I 23F was in a situationship of sorts with this guy 23M. We went on one date, he said he can’t be committed right now, but we were sorta friends for a couple weeks. But then, not an excuse but due to my past trauma I became annoying and wanted to see him again when he didn’t want to. He felt like I was using him and felt emotionally manipulated and I realize now I was being terrible.
But he kept in contact. He would reply/ help and while being clear that he didn’t want to do what he didn’t want to do and calling me out when I was being too extreme, he still helped.
When I finally realised how horrible I was being, I asked him to block me. I know I should have had better self control, but I didn’t want to trouble him again when I did get sad again. The last conversation :
Me – you might just want to block me. It’ll make me feel worse but I don’t want to trouble you anymore
Him – if you think that is best, I can do
Me – it’s probably the best for you. I don’t want to bother you anymore. Honestly, I’d feel worse for it.
Him – it’ll be for the best in the long run I think. So, goodbye.
What do you think he meant by in the long run – ?
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It’s very clear that you need to work on yourself before worry about someone else. Let him block you and move on to self improvement.