First of all I want to apologise for my bad English it’s not my first language. My problem is that my husband really tries to pleasure me every time we have sex and I feel like I can’t give it back because I am scared of e.g. being on top (which is one of his fantasies). It’s like everytime I have to be on top of him or I want to wank him off I am panicking and start feeling very awkward. Which is not his fault. I once told him that I feel like that and since then he really tried to make me feel comfortable. But this awkward feeling doesn’t really go away and if I try to go on top of him despite that it isn’t really good bc I am paralyzed. Does anybody have any tips for me ?
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Sex can be awkward and embarrassing. If you’re on top of him and you feel embarrassed about it… Over emphasize it…. Boobs flapping all over the place? Shake then like crazy and laugh about it. If you fall off… Make some crazy spectacle of it like role play a cowboy getting back on the horse.
Tell him you feel awkward on top and you’d like him to help you by guiding you, giving you feedback, etc. He will be more than happy for you to practise together.