Hello everybody,
this is my first post and my English is not that good. So I am sorry in advance. I (M26) have been seeing my girlfriend (F25) since June 2022. The sex was always awesome and the orgasms were incredible. Not only for me but since she is able to cum from me (since August) also for her. At least until a few weeks back. She once told me that the orgasms with me are the best she ever had and I can see at her reaction how good they were. So I believe her.
She can only cum by rubbing her clit against my dick or against my hip while I am inside of her or with my thumb rubbing her clit while I am inside of her. I have to keep the rhythm and stimulate how she likes it at the moment. It worked a few months really well, but now the orgasms are only like 2 – 3 seconds long and break up and aren’t that strong.
I don’t know what to change here. Of course we talked about it like very often what was different but there isn’t anything changed. We don’t know what can help.
Do you have any idea? Thank you very much!!
3 comments
Does she still have strong orgasms when masturbating alone?
Is she on antidepressants?
Very normal to have to stimulate, she could either have add or needs to stimulate herself instead of you trying. My boyfriend gets way too excited when I’m getting close, presses too hard, and turns me off.
Also sometimes orgasms require steady movement. So if you’re doing something and it’s working, don’t change it! So many guys will get excited and then change what they’re doing right when you were about to cum.
You could consider trying a vibrator to help her get there. Sometimes that’s the only way I can orgasm.