Went on a first date last night, conversation was good and went on for a good few hours but I can’t say I fancy the girl or would be devastated if I didn’t see her again, however I’d still be up for a second date just to see if anything does actually develop.
Obviously it’s bad manners to just not say anything, but I also don’t want to be overly keen and convey something that I’m not feeling. How can I go about the letting her know I enjoyed it but leave it open ended to see what she thought?
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idk I’m a sparks will fly when I first lay eyes on you kind of girl. I like to text for a month prior to meeting and I will know upon seeing him immediately exactly how I feel and if I see a future. Something about that spark…that soul connection has to be there. If it’s not there initially…it will not develop.
You can go on another date…maybe fall in love…but there are many types of love…and if she didn’t take your breath away or make you overly happy or nervous to just be around her that first day/night….then she never will do that for you in a relationship. It will be a love developed as a team…an appreciation for her as a human being but not a true deep love such as one has with a soulmate.
Up to you….you should ice her out slowly and explain that work is your priority right now and it turns out you don’t have time for a relationship or lie now and tell her your ex came back and she’s the one that got away and you’re super sorry bc she’s a great girl but you still love your ex.