I see the way my partner cares for his kids, he first offers me the world and now limits me from a lot of things.
Is he doing this so I suffer and don’t leave him and depend on him?
I don’t get it. It was not a real marriage and it was an agreement but he does love me I know he does.
Is he just afraid to lose me? Is this why he acts like an asshole and limits me from money when he told me not to work?
I want out but I am not financially stable.
Took my car and “bought me” one under his name.
I’m not on the house lease and won’t add me.
He lies about what he says.
He ignores me and gets upset when I express how I feel.
I’m not in love w him and I am strong enough to deal with it but I am so frustrated and want to know if this is common and if I should just get back on my grind and leave him?
He’s been a friend for 8 yrs and it will be very sad to leave him but I am not happy.
Help 🙏🏼
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This is not love nor is it normal. It’s abuse. Period.
I am in disbelief. I thought he loved me. But idk what he feels about me. No wonder his x wife left him of 15yrs w a new born and 2yr old.
Stupid not to see the signs.
Now I know if it’s too good to be true it’s not real.
Love isn’t necessarily healthy. Love can definitely be dysfunctional. Get a job and become self-sufficient. It will likely make your choice an easier one to make.