My boyfriend went on a tour and has friends he’s hooked up with in the past and one of them stayed in his hotel room because she was going to drive him to his next tour stop but he never told me about it like how they’ve hooked up in the past or even if that was okay in the first place for a girl to be staying in his hotel room (there were 2 beds) and another time he stayed at this other girls place on a layover and didn’t tell me she was someone that he’d hooked up with before. it’s a few months later now and it’s ruining our relationship because it’s something that’s made me question what he tells me or not tells me and it sucks. he said that he just wants to be with me and his single life was different and he didn’t know he had to change so much about his life and how that would bother me but now he knows. we’re having a tough time any advice on how to move on from this?
tldr: my boyfriends stayed with girls he’s hooked up with in the past on his tour and didn’t tell me they’d hooked up before and it’s still bothering me how do i get over it and how can i help him feel better since he feels bad for not telling me?
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It sounds like for some reason he didn’t know he would have to be considerate of your feelings in a relationship. I think he goes after young women because older women wouldn’t put up with this. You should end it. He doesn’t respect you nearly enough