Let me start this by saying I’m still very new to all this so inexperience might be one of the reasons why it’s not working.
The guy in seeing is smaller than average, I really don’t mind that since we have fun, but when we try cowgirl he keeps slipping out, we have tried many times in many angles and I don’t know if it’s because my anatomy or his anatomy or the way we are trying it but it’s not working and I really want to put the work as well but it’s really hard since I don’t want to hurt him.
Any advice?
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Instead of the more traditional up-down, try to grind back and forth. Won’t slip out as easy and it feels good for you (clitoral stimulation + penetration!) and him.
Grind
I totally agree with the grinding advice. I’ll also add that you can have him do the thrusting while you stay on top. Him being in control of it might help the positioning better (and also might lead him to figure out how best to move to stay in while you’re the one in control).
Put a pillow under the whole length of his spine. That will elevate his body a bit. It will be easier on you because you won’t have to bend your knees so much to get fully down on him. It will be easier on his abs because he won’t have to raise his body so much. All of that will help keep him inside.
Have fun! Cowgirl is awesome 👌🔥
I agree that grind > bounce. Also, try reverse cowgirl, but instead of straddling, put your legs together between his. You can do this in cowgirl as well, depending on body types.
Grinding back and forth is sound advice. Let me also add that cowgirl with a small to average penis can be amazing. Find your g spot and use his penis head to apply pressure, and at the same time, use his pelvis to rub ur clit. that’s a guaranteed orgasm for me.