If you aren’t into a dude, just tell him

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1. Ironically they don’t say anything so as to not hurt your feelings. Goes for men and women.

2. We have to understand a fair amount of people are naturally conflict avoidant. And then see turning someone down as conflict. So it’s easier to just not tell him that.

   Also the bigger reason is safety. Idk if you watch the news at all but there’s some guys out there who when they get shot down go crazy and do some fucked up stuff. Women don’t know which guy those guys are just by looking at them so what are they to do?

3. maybe you should just be more upfront about your intentions. lotta dudes have a tendency to make things weird or even dangerous if the lack of interest isn’t communicated delicately