Hi, I am not sure if it’s because of what happened to me that I find it scary to realize that I might not be able to find another relationship? But can someone like me, an introvert, 30 years old Female who rarely goes out find another partner to settle down with? my ex fiancé cheated on me and it hit my view on relationships and now I am scared that I may never find anyone who will be interested on me since I am already 30.
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I don’t see why you wouldn’t be able to find someone at 30.
being introverted is fine there are alot of guys who are. The only real problem with being introverted is less chances to meet people, since well.. you simply are not out and about as often.
If you have any hobbies even if they tend to be more solo/stay at home hobbies. Try joining some local groups for them either in person or online communities.
I’m sorry that happened to you.
There is no rush. Live your life and do what makes you happy. When you’re ready to find someone, you will start doing things that get you closer to that goal.
Once you get to that point, definitely motivate yourself to step a little outside your comfort zone. I’m introverted too and I had to regulalrly convince myself to go hang with friends. It helped me become a lot less awkward.