I was stroking my fwb cock the other day and he’s getting close. He loves my boobs so generally his hands are balled up full of nipple and boob, but this time he has his hand around my neck applying some gentle pressure until he comes. It was unusual for him to apply any pressure. It’s not something he’s done before. Like in the past he’s had his palm splayed across my chest or lifting my chin up between thumb and forefinger, but never what I’d describe as a squeeze.
I like his hand there but I also didn’t like that he put any pressure behind it. I told him that and he hadn’t realised he was doing it. We set it as a new boundary but it does worry me a little that he didn’t realise he was doing it.
Why might he have his hand there? He’s not into BDSM, so there isn’t a precident for it either. Can you help me understand the action from his place of unawareness?
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He’s just exploring things. I love cupping the tits when I’m about to cum, but I alternate by choking too.
Talk what’s acceptable to you and what’s not. Define boundaries and go crazy
The throat is extremely sensitive to pressure; it really doesn’t take much before you feel like you’re being strangled. My partner does the same thing (because I asked him to) but I do frequently need to remind him that just a firm hold is plenty and no additional pressure is necessary lol.
Sounds like he was just trying something new. Lots of people really like a hand on their throat.