basically when my roommate has his friends come over i am always treated as like this lesser being, he is the human that lives here and i am this little creature in the room over the visits frequently.
this isn’t to say they don’t like me, i think they do, but they do it in a way that makes me feel like a dog, they will say my full name like they are calling a little dog, they act too excited to see me in a way that is not how you would respond to a normal person. i really cant put all of it into words but if you saw it you would understand what i mean
i’m assuming this is because i’m quiet and maybe because i’m short? occasionally shorter than some of them.
this has been a problem for me since high school but it’s really bothering me now, has anyone else experienced anything similar and if so what did you do?
also i wanted to edit the title because it reads weird but it doesn’t let me apparently so just pretend sorry
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Ye sounds like they adopted you like a lost puppy or mascot.
They seem to find you cute I assume. If you want to be seen as more manly with your statue maybe look at your posture, work out (helps with posture) and maybe grow some trimmed facial hair.
Enter the room upright and with a smile and dont try to make a posture like you want to take the least space possible.
(Thats ofc only my assumption, I never been in that Situation)