Hi im a male (12) and i am looking for some advice on dating in school. As some know i am going through puberty and am taking an interest in girls. I need help talking to my crush. We have been friends since preschool and i need help asking her out.
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Girls might think i am weird. While i am just being myself, i dont know if i should just be quiet and wait for them to talk to me or talk to them first.
I mainly need help figuring out how to not be made fun of after. It’s brutal in ms and people make fun of people so im just wondering.
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Well bud Imma drop some real shit on ya here and I need you to listen because this is important. I am currently 19 and at this moment have never had a girl. I would also say in some sense I am anti social and can be seen as weird. The truth is you should not wait. I have spent my entire life liking girls but never having the balls to say something. There probably not gonna say something first. What you need to do is wait until she’s somewhat alone and be smooth and confident. And frankly event if she says no life will move on. You’ll find other girls. You’ll go through more rejection. But i promise the regret you will have later from every time you didn’t say something will hurt way more than the rejection. That I can promise. Oh and don’t say something like “do you want to go out” that’s is way to direct and girls don’t like that it’s boring. If you guys don’t already have atlesst somewhat of a connection you need to build that first. Ask her to go to the movies or to get food.
I was only interested in stupid shit at that age. Played and collected card games, video games with friends and got into trouble. And survived.. cause kids are cruel jack.
My advice would be to just.. well, live a little more before you go into that pain train.