Any time I try to join conversations with my coworkers or my classmates I’m either ignored or they act uncomfortable until I leave. It makes me feel like shit and I don’t understand why they do this. I’m just trying to be more social. I am so tired of feeling so empty and alone and isolated. I have no real friends. What’s wrong with me?
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This was a common occurrence for me. Sometimes I felt like they took offense to me butting in. I didn’t do it a lot either and I felt i didn’t come off as condescending or something. I end up talk to my coworkers classmates etc usually one on one
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This happens to me with certain groups as well. It can feel like the whole world hates you. But maybe this means you haven’t found your group of people who really get you and enjoy being around you yet. I think the more you put your true self out there and exude as much confidence as you can in the face of unkind or off put people the more likely they will find you. I tell myself there are people out there that will love me and enjoy who I really am and I don’t deserve to put up with people who don’t appreciate me authentically
It’s wrong of your classmates to do that. And nothing is wrong of you.