Hello,

I (25|M) had an argument with this woman (31|F) I was dating for about five months and she left my house during, haven’t seen her since.

While I was chilling with her on my bed after not seeing her for a few weeks due to my work, I saw a text from her ex she just received. I’m not a jealous type but wondered what’s up. She said I’m making her feel uncomfortable meanwhile I was only asking about that text for the first time in five months of being together. She started to threaten me with wanting leave my place so I told her to leave. Cannot and won’t ask for someone to stay if she is already trying to leave.

After that I sent her some flowers since the argument didn’t solve anything and we didn’t talk for a day. She said they are pretty and thanked me but that’s it. When I asked if I can call/ft her, only response I got was that she doesn’t want to talk.

After waiting for a few days, I tried to talk to her again but got ghosted. Waited other day and sent a farewell text (I never do this over text but I wasn’t able to get a hold of her other way). We spent such good times together so I believe at least some good wishes can be sent after you share all those memories with someone. No response but I wasn’t even expecting one.

Not sure if this was my fault but getting ghosted hurts after all those months even if we aren’t supposed to be together anymore.

Edit: More info on the argument. Also I already blocked her on social media.

4 comments
  1. Pff sounds like you got off easy most just cling on to you until they monkey branch. Sounds like a her problem. You want to the communicate, she didnt. Says alot about her.

  2. Sounds like she was entertaining you while she was upset with her boyfriend. Now they are making up she is is using that argument to overreact and put distance between you.

    You seem like a good guy who has good communicative skills. And I have never had a man buy me flowers after an argument. Someone like you is rare and hard to find.

    She will be back when her boyfriend messes up again. Do not let her come back.

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