So honestly I feel bad for my older brother. He has a really hard time with women for some reason…. He goes on tinder, but no luck. I think it’s because he acts fake. Like he plays this totally different person in front of strangers, and I always tell him to be yourself and gets mad at me for that. Like he plays this super overly awkward nice guy character. He is a bit of a jerk, but he’s not a bad guy. So he hasn’t been getting any luck. He’s not a bad looking guy too, it’s probably just his fake personality he puts up. He goes extremely overboard with flowers and planning every bit of a date like probably coming off too desperate for being too nice. I want to help him, but he always gets pissed off at me. I told him to go to therapy because he gets super depressed over this. But he just thinks I’m making fun of him, and tells me I have a problem.
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coming from an older brother Just don’t make him feel bad – he probably doesn’t want your input so when you give it you are just creating negative emotions. it will happen when it happens 🤷♂️
People can tell when you’re not being your authentic self. Also I wouldn’t mention it until he says something about it. If he mentions it that’s fair game to bring it up just don’t do it in front of others. Maybe start the conversation but don’t make it a big deal.