It’s been 2 years since my exgf broke with me. I’ve been through a long journey since then. I was in therapy, got a promotion and moved to a new flat. I was extra motivated, I joined multiple activities like CrossFit and swimming and I keep going. I thought either my exgf would come back or I would find another person.
In the beginning I tried dating apps for many months and I got zero matches, then I tried IRL approaching and meeting girls IRL. I can write pages about all my failures. I lost the motivation, I lost hope. If I can’t get a single date in two years I won’t ever find a compatible partner.
It’s another weekend lonely, yes, I have some new friends and we sometimes make plans and go out, but they also have their partners or they are dating around to find a potential partner.
Meanwhile I am alone, I don’t even talk to any girl. I don’t even feel sad, I guess you can’t have all in life and in my case I can’t have dates.
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Apparently you need to make some more friends, have you ever considered being friends with girls without trying to have sex with them? That might help
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